START A GROUP
START A GROUP
You need a crew.
Most men don’t need another event. They need a few brothers who will help them keep moving forward. Gaining Ground Groups are built for that: simple, honest, consistent spaces where men talk about life, faith, leadership, marriage, fatherhood, discipline, and the next step God is calling them to take. You don’t have to be a Bible expert to lead one. You just have to be willing to show up, go first, and keep it honest.
THE DIFFERENCE
BUILT FOR MEN WHO DON'T NEED COMPLICATED.
Anytime, anywhere
Meet at a coffee shop, garage, office, golf course, or anywhere guys can show up. Morning, evening, weekends - you decide.
No Bible degree required
Being real is more important than having all the answers. We're not looking for Bible experts, just guys who can open the conversation.
Make it your own
No forced curriculum. No complicated schedule. Invite guys into what you’re already doing and grow from there.
Invite guys you know
No awkward circles. Start with 2–3 men you already know, like, and trust. Commit to grow with them.
Just start
Don't overthink it. Pick a time, choose a place, and take the first step.
FAQ'S
Yes. If you know 2–3 guys you like and want to grow with, you can lead a group. You don’t need to be perfect; you just need to be willing. We’ll equip you with training before you launch so you’re not starting from scratch. “Practice these things… so that all may see your progress.”— 1 Timothy 4:15
No. You’re not expected to have all the answers—just to create a space where men can grow.
Your role is simple:
- Open the conversation
- Keep it moving
- Point people toward truth
Growth happens in honesty, not expertise.
Keep it simple:
- Talk about what you’re learning (podcast, Scripture, life)
- Ask real questions
- Pray for each other
That’s it. As your group finds its rhythm, your group will develop new ways to go deeper.
Start with 2–3. Let it grow naturally. Jesus changed the world with 12… and spent most of His time with 3. Start with what you’ve got and see where God wants to take it.
Consistency matters more than frequency.
We suggest starting with:
- Once a week, or
- Every other week
Pick a rhythm you can actually sustain. Meet anywhere: coffee shop, garage, online, office, living room, gym. If guys can show up, it works.
You probably won’t. But leadership in Gaining Ground isn’t about having it all together—it’s about taking responsibility for your next step. Start anyway.
You’re not the teacher. You’re the tone setter. Show up consistently, go first in honesty, keep the conversation focused, and make sure every guy has a chance to talk. Run the group chat & set the date and time.
It might go quiet for a season. That’s okay. If people don’t show, reach back out. Show up again. If the group fizzles out and needs to restart, that’s better than one that never began. Consistency over time is the whole game.
Progress.
Not perfection. Not information. Progress.
We’re aiming for 1% better every day—spiritually, relationally, and personally.
“Practice these things… so that all may see your progress.” — 1 Timothy 4:15.
When men take small, consistent steps forward, everything around them gets better.
Click HERE to let your Groups Pastor know you’re interested.
That’s normal.
We’re not chasing massive overnight change—we’re chasing 1% better every day.
Small steps:
- One honest conversation
- One right decision
- One moment of discipline
That’s how real change happens. “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much.” — Luke 16:10
Over time, those small steps turn into real progress.
No. The best groups focus not just on themselves but on others as well. It’s what Jesus designed us for.
Think about one person in your life who’s far from God.
- Pray for him.
- Invite him to watch the game with you.
- Bring him along to group.
You don’t have to have a program. Just bring people with you as you do what you’re already doing.
